Contrary to popular belief, it is not only men but women as well, who cheat on their spouse. Perhaps, the only difference is, women are more discreet. Since women are by nature more concerned with details than men, they see to it that they work clean.

The 9 Signs:

• Alertness in answering the phone. Normally, the teenagers in the house race to answer the phone when it rings. A busy wife will order her kids to answer the phone, since she doesn’t want to be disturbed. But if she grabs the phone after just one ring, or if she is always on the phone and she talks in whispers, then she could be talking g to a lover. If she suddenly hangs when her husband or kids arrive, then something’s very suspicious.
• Expensive and unexplained gifts like jewelry, appliances, and flowers… are a telltale sign. Has she been wearing expensive clothes when she is known to be a bargain hunter? Somebody could be giving her those items that her husband never bought for her.
• A wife who doesn’t seem to mind her husband’s night out with the boys anymore, or her husband’s daily overtime at the office, may be busy with her own “extracurricular” affairs. If she doesn’t seem to mind that her husband is always out, then maybe she doesn’t miss him anymore because somebody else is taking his place!
• Frequent “wrong number” calls to the house is something to be suspicious about. When somebody else but the wife answers, and a mysterious caller just hang up, he could be her lover who accidentally calls up at the wrong time.
• The wife who suddenly becomes interested in things she used to dislike is unusual. If she suddenly knows how to use the chopsticks when she never entered Chinese nor Japanese restaurants before, somebody she is seeing may be fond of going to those places. If she finds it amusing to watch boxing when she used to think that the sport was barbaric, then her lover may be lecturing to her about boxing.
• A wife who no longer has time for her kids could be spending her time with a lover. Normally, the husband complains because all the wife attends to are the kids. But if even the kids are being neglected then something unusual must be happening.
• Frequent and unexplained purchases with the credit card could be another clue. This is especially true if nobody in the family receives any of the items purchased. A wife is more likely to buy things for her husband or kids before she buys anything for herself. If the purchased items like perfumes or polo shirts, car accessories, small appliances, etc… are missing, she could have bought those for somebody who’s not part of the family!
• A wife who suddenly fixes herself and appears lively and bubbly when she used to complain a lot and didn’t mind how she looked like at home may be inspired by a lover. If she smells fresh the whole day, when before, her husband had to remind her to comb her hair, then she may be expecting a visitor any moment after the husband or kids have left the house.
• A wife who suddenly sizzles in bed, when before, she used to be so passive, could be having great sex with a lover. If she suddenly knows a lot of sexual turn-ons, when all she knew before was how to kiss, then somebody may be tutoring her! On the contrary, a wife who’s no longer exciting to make love to, may be thinking of some other guy and secretly wishing her husband to be him.

One of these signs does not guarantee a cheating wife. But two or more, especially over a long period of time, are enough warning. Wives are tempted to cheat for many reasons. The most common of all are, if they feel neglected by their husband or if they are bored to death by the routine of their being a mother and a wife. Nine out of ten times, a cheating wife feels desperately sorry for her mistake and tries to mend her ways. The key, therefore, is prevention. Don’t neglect your wife so that she won’t be tempted to cheat!